Inevitable Discrepancy

Listen to your heart. Do whatever you love to do. Make your dream come true. Chase your dream. Don’t compromise your long-term dream for short-term gains. The guts to follow these life-altering statements are the ultimate game changer end of the day. However, a zillion of cognitive and critical real life challenges we usually go through to treasure our cherished dream. It requires a hard fought endeavor, mammoth sacrificial mindset, and of course a hell-bent, stiff determination not to be distracted by obvious disruption and surprising obstacles that may hit the painstaking journey every now and then. Those who can conquer all these lethal hindrances survive and embed their names perpetually in the list of successful Spartans.

Fact of the matter is, it’s not a piece of cake to listen the true calling of heart! Some everyday unfavorable incidents, human poking, minor failures and shaky confidence can play unwanted role to derail a folk from his focus. Unable to resolve inner conflict makes the real damage. If there is any sort of idiosyncrasy between desired goal and subsequent action to clinch that goal, the end result will unlikely to happen according to will. A desire has to be a true desire; otherwise, efforts will barely be on its top. And this very notion can destroy many beautiful dreams without incurring any aforementioned message to the dreamers. Broken dream hurts; yes, it hurts silently and chronically. Dreams need to be protected at any cost. Again, at any cost dream deserves its maximum protection from outer world’s invasion until it comes true. The extrinsic and intrinsic value of a come-true dream is invaluable. It’s the true instinct that makes some people different from others. Yet again, first and foremost, discrepancy or any conflicting state of mind to chase dream needs to be resolved to help the dream to bring forth its eventual outcome, and show dreamer the way of gaining smooth momentum to climb the ladder of success in every sphere of life.

Discrepancy in fondness can result in disastrous consequences as emotional contact makes the matter critically fuzzy. Fondness can’t be abided by any specific limit. Similarly, rationale shouldn't clinch over fondness as it is an amorphous human trait that varies from person to person. One’s affectionateness will not necessarily be ubiquitously acceptable to the outer world, as someone’s affection may be the cause of utter disturbance to someone else. Trying to establish fondness without judging the aftereffect may even create frequent brawl among people. Audacity to express likings, no matter about what, should be appreciated, but real life rules behave eccentrically. Sometimes judgmental error in judging consequences can not be avoided as spontaneity of likings can hardly be barred to make blatant exposure. However, on the other side of spectrum, many people are quite timid to make the world know about their true desire because of fear and apprehension of social assault. They don’t want to be socially belittled or publicly ashamed for the sake of their inner calling even if knowing that is the right thing to do. Here comes the divergence, again silently but quite horrendously that fondness, which upheavals infrequently, withers over time. Does it perish perpetually? No way, philia may be suppressed but it can never be annihilated. That is why human beings are so different. They can nurture likings, they can duress likings, but they often fail to eradicate it from heart permanently. Philia of all kinds have an envious strength to pop up in mind time and again. They prevail over emotional skirmish everytime! 

By
George Atlantic